"Having a one way love affair is not just hard; it's stupid."
Some regard it as one of human's greatest mistake. To be foolishly letting oneself to suffer and to moan alone. To admire and to praise from afar. Not forgetting to frown due to jealousy of the people around her; even though not meeting each other.
While some also take it as another way; a unique of loving another person. Could be that some people are better of admired from afar. Rather than to get closer and later on to hurt each other until hatred arises.
So which is it? Can it be both?
"Sometimes we spend too much time thinking of the people which most probably didn't even had us across their minds."
Another thing that will most probably come across here. Why? Is it because there's nothing or no one else to think of? Mental contamination? Or maybe is it just pure emotions? More questions here. Explainable? Yes, but not to anyone else but yourself.
"Emotions - weakness or strength?"
A very subjective question that one must answer without the interference of any other people's intelligence or self eradicated emotions. A question that WILL have different answers from different people. As they say; results may vary.
It does weakens a person when sorrow hits the spot. Putting people into miserable thoughts and desires. May even wear and tear that person physically once it is out of control. Hence, might even KILL.
In another way it does the opposite. To be optimistic and to work harder for that desire. To not give up when one is on fire. To ignore all negativity when focused. To seal darkness when the light arises.
"How?"
More, and more questions. Can emotions be control? Like having a delete button in ourselves? Yes we can. Through religion, it is possible. As simple as that. But have we done it? Or will we? A question which the answer is only for each and everyone of us to know alone. As for Muslims; sollat, zikir, Qur'an readings, and many more will help us here. It is just matter of doing it.